Man trouble?2
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Question by julybaby: Man trouble?
2 yrs ago I met a guy, he’s an Army guy, really cool. Not the most good looking person – bald head, tall – but he had a great smile. I went out with him a few times, & then learned that he’s a serial dater. He has trouble with committment (he even told me so). I believe him b/c he never seems to settle down with anyone.
He wanted to remain friends with benefits, but I said no & stopped all contact. He even moved to another state, called me twice, we talked but I could tell he still didn’t want a committment.
I found his myspace page & he has all women on it. There is only one attractive girl but the rest are so-so or even kind of ugly.
I don’t know why I am still thinking of him. Maybe it’s just the “man that got away syndrome” but I wish I would stop. I keep thinking he will call me & tell me he’s made a mistake & that he does want to commit to me.
I need to stop thinking like this!
How can I get over him?
Do you really think he is “friends” with those women on his myspace page or friends w/benefits? Maybe I should have just tried to stay friends w/him and not have been so hard on us. I’m confused 
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Answer by Jay
u should forget him and move on.
even U know that he isnt worth wasting ur time on, y else wld u have cut off all contact?
u seem like a smart person, so instead of asking wt u already hv th answer to,just go ahead and let time heal ur yearning 4him.
in th end, its difficult making th right decision, but we all have th choice whether to hurt or love ourselves.
so love urself and i wish u th best!
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He admits he has a problem with commitment, so he definitely does. I really hate to say it, but women, well … we have this fantasy that it would be so great if, out of all those women, WE were different somehow. Unfortunately, men like that know this! He may care about you on some level, sure, but he would not have asked you to be friends w/ benefits if he thought you were truly his special woman. It’s great you didn’t accept that lame idea!
Look this guy is in the army how is he possibly going to commit himself to you, he could go months or years even without seeing you, this guy is being honest with you. He has probably had sex with hundreds of girls and probably was whilst you were writing this, he just wants fun because his jobs stops him from committing himself to you. He just wants someone to have sex with especially when he has not had it for months, if you said you would be friends with benefits he would probably call you 10 seconds after arranging to meet up, but seeing as you told him no, he is no longer interested. In fairness i think that is what he was trying to tell you but did not want to make you out to feel like trash. He told you him self, so my advice is unless you just want some fun i would say forget about him, and the serial dater part, that’s more than likely to be true, and as for the girls on the web, they probably mean as much to him as you did at the time. I’m sorry you feel this way but I’m pretty sure you came on here for honesty. And i have been honest, why would you want him when you could do so much better. I hope everything works out for you and your strong enough to forget about this looser and he will only ever make you miserable, and besides even if you got together i doubt he would ever be the honest man you would like him to be. Take care, Best Wishes Ellie.x