Question by julybaby: Army guys-can’t get over them…?
2 yrs ago I met a guy, he’s an Army guy, really cool, slow southern drawl. I went out with him a few times, & then learned that he’s a serial dater. He was on 3 difference dating sites that I know of. He has trouble with commitment (he even told me so). I believe him b/c he never settled down.
He wanted to remain friends with benefits, but I said no & stopped all contact. He even moved to another state, called me twice, we talked but I could tell he still didn’t want a commitment. I think he called me for an ego stroke.
I found his myspace page & he has all women on it. There is only one attractive girl but the rest are so-so or even kind of ugly. I’m jealous that I didn’t remain friends like the women on his page.
Maybe it’s just the “man that got away syndrome” but I wish I’d stop thinking of him. I keep hoping he will call me & tell me he’s made a mistake & that he does want to commit to me.
I need to stop thinking like this!
How can I get over him
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Answer by OB the Wolf
maybe you need to get with a navy guy
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First, realize that you are seriously attracted to him.
Despite his player-like demeanor, you even find that acceptable.
His MySpace page, full of women, is like a revelation to you that you are not the only one he sports. In a way, its like a slap in the face, you hate him, but you still want him…jealousy of having other women going after him…
The way I see it, go cold turkey.
It will be difficult because you will think about him, you will try to repress his image in your head, but life is like that, you need to realize, grow on it, and move on.
He is almost an addiction to you.
How do you get rid of an addiction?
Cold turkey.
sounds like he would never have been the kind of guy you wanted. he wouldnt have changed and he would have never wanted commitment. just tell your self you deserve better and find a new guy!
good luck
Is your question about this one particular guy, or are you saying that you only date men who are in the army? There are a couple different issues going on here, and none of them have anything to do with that serial dater. It seems to me that you have some sort of fixation—very unhealthy. When a relationship ends you have to focus on moving on. You’re clearly not doing that if you’re spending your time searching for this guy’s personal ads on the internet sites and viewing his Myspace page. Why in the world are you doing these things? Why not instead spend the time on making your own personal ad to meet somebody else? And what’s up with the Army thing? Is this a fetish? If so, you need to let this go as well. Men are all different, but we’re also all the same. Sounds crazy, doesn’t it? But it actually makes perfect sense. We’re all different in terms of our personalities and desires, but we’re all generally the same in terms of most aspects of our physical construction. This doesn’t change whether we’re wearing a military uniform or not. You need to stop thinking about dating Army men, and just date men period. When you meet one who’s really into you, you can buy him some fatigues at an Army and Navy uniform surplus store and dress him up for private fantasy role play.