Feb 2011 09

Question by Christie L: I almost married a man who I think is evil..what kind of illness would cause him to do these things?
I found out that my ex-fiance told people that he had cancer and needed surgery, to get money. He went so far as to go into his place of employment and fake post-operative pain. He “borrowed” money from a guy who has severe physical disabilities, “borrowed” money from my mom and cousin, took a new pick-up from a dealer saying that he would get the money to him when the sale of his beef cattle went through(he told me he had traded an older truck and paid some cash for it…he owned no livestock) He in fact stole the truck, drove it across state lines with me on board, and abandoned the truck and I at a motel in Montana. He claimed that his best friend had died and he needed to go to the funeral. I was sick, so I did not go. He parked the truck behind the motel, and that was the last time I saw him. He stole my phone when he left, and i saw that he was roaming all over the eastern seaboard, not at a funeral in montana. I have picked over many of the days that we were together and as it turns out, he was very good at telling lies…and had everyone fooled…Is this illness or evil?
Thank you all for your answers….as far as any charges are concerned, I think there are several people looking for him, but would prefer to take the law into their own hands. He forged my name on the title for my Ford Expedition and told the dealer that we had parted company…the dealer believed him when he said that he would give me my money. He did not even question the obvious forgery. I took the matter to the police but all they did was sort of shrug their shoulders and ask me what I thought they could do. Talk about frustrating!
I would LOVE to see him on Oprah!! Gotta catch him first….
When I retell this story, people look at me as if I have lost my mind.. …that hurts. It’s like a bad movie..
Oprah has 11 pages online when punched in sociopath…..I read the posts there and half- expect them to mention his name….all sociopaths exhibit the same traits, or so it seems
To Lioness….I wanted to give your answer the thumbs up but accidentally did the reverse…sorry

Best answer:

Answer by sunset
Evil – a sociopath for sure.

What do you think? Answer below!

3 Comments

  1. heatherette says:

    Narcissist.

  2. Lioness says:

    More evil than illness. However, your ex is a psychopath / sociopath / antisocial personality. This is an Axis II disorder that is highly resistant to treatment. Most serial killers are antisocial personalities, as are bigamists and other scam artists. They have no conscience and people are nothing more than things to be used for his / her own ends. Sociopaths are incapable of connecting with other people on an emotional level, which prevents them from having truly intimate relationships with anyone. Your ex is definitely a scam artist. Don’t worry. he’ll eventually get caught. Has anyone brought charges against him yet?

  3. AndyF says:

    He sounds just like my ex brother in law and I always felt he was evil. He would lie right to my face. His stories were always to get others to help him.
    Your guy sounds like his twin. Some psychiatrist may say it’s an illness but the psys. I have met speak like a duck-quack quack.
    I am glad for you not marrying this guy.
    You should put this on Oprah!

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